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A calm, softly lit winter interior scene, with lake seen through the window. A middle aged man is sitting quietly by a window with a warm mug in his hands, Christmas lights blurred in the background. No smiles, no sadness - just stillness, reflection, and emotional depth.

Be kinder than you think you need to be this Christmas

Christmas often intensifies pressure, loneliness, and unspoken exhaustion. This post explores why kindness matters more than ever, how small boundaries protect your energy, and why checking in on the people who always seem “fine” can change everything. Especially at this time of year.

Heike Schimanski

4 min read

A calm, wide ocean, blue sky, mixed coloured clouds, gentle waves. In the foreground on a gravelled beach: two natural rocks, that look similar to standing stones, leaning against each other, supporting each other. One is a little shorter than the other. They are symbolising steadiness, clarity, and grounded strength. balance, honesty, and quiet power. They are symbolising the balance between feminine and masculine power.

Why ‘Healthy Masculinity’ Is Getting More Toxic Instead of Better

The hype around “healthy masculinity” is getting louder - and more toxic. Instead of supporting men, it adds pressure, shame, and endless expectations. Masculinity isn’t a trend or a performance. It’s a grounded way of being human with strength, integrity, compassion, and self-respect. When we understand both sides of the equation, the conversation becomes clearer, kinder, and far more honest.

Heike Schimanski

4 min read